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Thanks to the landmark (and long overdue) Supreme Court ruling on same-sex marriage in 2015, LGBTQ+ weddings are now legal in all 50 states. Planning...
A same-sex wedding is just like anyone else’s: full of love and joy, with maybe a heartfelt tear or two! We regularly host LGBTQ+ weddings at our gorgeous event venues and absolutely love them. Every wedding is a chance to form close bonds with a couple and help transform their wedding ideas into a flawless event.
To help you feel confident we’ve assembled a few of the most frequent questions we hear about same-sex weddings. If you’re gay, lesbian, trans, or any combination of the multitude of possibilities, we hope you find these helpful. You might also want to share a few of these before your wedding to get everyone on the same page.
When you select Wedgewood Weddings, you can expect to be welcomed by everyone. We stand up for equality and, of course, love! We’ll introduce you to our recommended vendors who echo our stance.
Do you need to specifically come out to your vendors? No. But it can feel good to be forthright if you choose, especially if your names are gender-neutral and you prefer to have your orientation acknowledged. As you work together, your wedding vendors will understand if you need extra support or have unusual requests.
Your friends and family will be excited to hear if you are combining, hyphenating, changing, or keeping your last names. You can make an official announcement, include your intentions in your wedding invitation, or update your social media handles to share the news when you’re ready!
For mail, all couples are addressed in the same way wherever their orientation: first one and then the other.
Mrs or Ms? It’s polite for anyone new to your circle to check if you prefer Ms. or Mrs. rather than assume.
Most couples choose a friend to be their officiant, but we can also introduce you to our recommended officiant once you have chosen a venue. Our venue’s officiant is always gay-friendly and embraces every form of love. They will be happy to meet with you before your wedding date and learn about the type of ceremony you want.
We love to hear personalized vows and admire anyone courageous enough to write their own. You can adapt traditional vows if you feel they are limiting, or your officiant can guide you towards suitable readings if you want to include your faith in your wedding ceremony.
Most readings are gender-neutral or can easily be adapted but, to save you searching, here are ten of our absolute favorite readings suitable for same-sex ceremonies.
"What is the beginning? Love.
What the course. Love still.
What the goal. The goal is love.
On a happy hill.”
"i carry your heart with me (i carry it in
my heart) i am never without it (anywhere
i go you go, my dear; and whatever is done
by only me is your doing, my darling)
no fate(for you are my fate, my sweet)i want
no world(for beautiful you are my world, my true)
and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you"
“I am like a falling star who has finally found her place next to another in a lovely constellation, where we will sparkle in the heavens forever.”
“Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.”
"People are like cities: We all have alleys and gardens and secret rooftops and places where daisies sprout between the sidewalk cracks, but most of the time all we let each other see is a postcard glimpse of a skyline or a polished square. Love lets you find those hidden places in another person, even the ones they didn’t know were there, even the ones they wouldn’t have thought to call beautiful themselves."
"Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens
A good marriage must be created
In the art of marriage the little things are the big things.
It is never being too old to hold hands
It is remembering to say "I love you" at least once a day
It is never going to sleep angry
It is at no time taking the other for granted;
the courtship should not end with the honeymoon,
it should continue through all the years."
“No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice, and family. In forming a marital union, two people become something greater than once they were. […] The Constitution grants them that right.”
“What is straight? A line can be straight, or a street, but the human heart, oh, no, it's curved like a road through mountains.”
“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”
"...Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wand'ring bark,
Whose worth is unknown, although his height be taken."
An incredible number of couples pick their first song before they even decide to get married. They carry it in their hearts on a cloud of sentimentality. Maybe it's the first song you heard together, on an album you gave on valentine's day, or a song the matched your heart so perfectly. Here are seven that capture the essence of love for every type of couple.
Baby it's you/You're the one I love/You're the one I need/You're the only one I see
Oh, won't you stay with me?/'Cause you're all I need
Whenever you're in trouble won't you stand by me / Oh, stand by me / Woah, just stand now / Oh, stand, stand by me
Oh, it's such a perfect day / I'm glad I spent it with you / Oh, such a perfect day
At last / My love has come along / My lonely days are over / And life is like a song
Love always deserves to be celebrated and we welcome every couple to Wedgewood Weddings. We're honored to host couples on the most special day of their lives!
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Our team members here at Wedgewood Weddings work tirelessly behind the scenes to ensure your wedding day is everything you dreamed of. Many of our...